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When parents are asked what their one wish for their children is, many respond with the fact that they want their children to be happy.

tips for raising content kids

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We all want to be raising content kids. Parents want happy children. From the moment they are born our kids’ happiness becomes a top priority.

That doesn’t change as they grow, however it can seem to get more difficult to navigate how to ensure their happiness.

Remember that having happy kids does not mean giving children everything they want. It does not mean giving in when they whine and beg. It does not mean having them kids signed up for that dance class or hockey program.

Many parents fall into the trap of saying yes to their children because they do not want them to feel bad. Kids, just like us, will have disappointments in life and it is not our job as parents to “fix” their disappointment. 

Happiness is about parenting the individual child. Every child is different and will not necessarily respond to parenting the same way.

The Happy Kid Handbook explores the differences among introverts, extroverts, and everything in between. This guide to parenting offers parents the strategies they need to meet their child exactly where he or she needs to be met.

Sometimes our child’s emotions can get overlooked. Parents tend to focus more on how their children are behaving, rather than how they are feeling. Maintaining an awareness of your child’s emotional state and keeping in mind that emotions play a big part in their wellbeing, can help parents become far more involved with their children and educate themselves on ways to raise a happy and content child.



Children can feed off our emotions. If we as parents are unhappy or not content in life, it is more likely that our children will feel that and mirror our feelings.

Surround yourself with positive people, laugh often and take time for yourself to boost your mood. Chances are you will see a difference in your child’s emotional state as well.


Learn to expect effort over perfection. As long as your child is putting in the effort to do their best, that’s all that matters. Expecting perfection puts a lot of stress on a child and therefore causes irritation and lower self-confidence when they don’t perform perfectly.

No one is perfect. Make it very clear to your child that effort is important but that you don’t expect perfection.


Giving your child responsibilities can help to increase their self-confidence and make them feel valued. Delegate responsibilities to your child that are age appropriate and within their capabilities. This will help to make them feel as though they are contributing something positive and in turn, increase their happiness.


Take time daily to focus on what each member of your family is grateful for. If you all sit at the table together to enjoy dinner every night as a family, go around the table and express one thing you are grateful for each night. Doing this can help to foster a positive attitude, contentment, and happiness.

Your child’s happiness can depend on many different factors and it is important that we as parents don’t put too much pressure on them and focus on fostering a positive attitude. Your child will be much happier for it.

You may also enjoy reading these parenting books:

Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World

A Step-by-Step Guide to Raising Capable, Grateful Kids in an Over-Entitled World

You may also like this LESS TOYS, HAPPIER KIDS post:

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jennifer dawdy

Tuesday 5th of December 2017

Be patient.


Friday 10th of November 2017

This is a great post! I definitely fell into the trap of giving my oldest son everything that he wanted in order to make him happy. I thought I was being a good parent. However, he went off to college not really knowing how to work hard and earn something, and ended up failing out. Due to the way I raised him! We finally got him help that helped him to grow up, and now we're trying really hard to raise our younger kids right and learn from our mistakes. This post is a great reminder of what's important when raising kids. Thank you!

Nursery Rhymes

Wednesday 8th of November 2017

Incredible post and very educative. Thanks for sharing!

lori galbraith

Monday 6th of November 2017

I think a key sentence you shared was this -happy kids does not mean giving children everything they want.

Jody @ Mommy Moment

Monday 6th of November 2017

I truly believe that. Thanks for leaving a comment, Lori.

Donna L.

Sunday 5th of November 2017

Great advice!