Baby Steps to Minimalism: a Mom’s Guide

My big issue was staying on top of clutter. After months at home on maternity leave I was still no farther ahead in finding an organization solution for all of our stuff. We had drawers filled with bits and pieces of things and when all the laundry was done – which was rare – not all of our clothing fit in our closet and dressers. Our bathroom cupboards were so full that our big Costco size pack of toilet paper was parked in our dining room next to the china cabinet. Needless to say, I didn’t want to have people over for a dinner party. I started to think more about these people living with 100 things. I couldn’t do that but could I find a way to make my life a little easier by having less stuff?

That was my start to becoming the Minimalist Mom. I spent two months slowly picking through our belongings. I got rid the sheets and duvet for the guest bed we no longer had and the random kitchen items I used once a year. We sold most of our books and started going to the library more. After having a baby and deciding not to go back to my corporate job I was able to say goodbye to 80% of my wardrobe. Most of what I had either didn’t fit me well or I never wore it. It was nice to send it to a charity where it would be appreciated. We kept what we use in 95% of our daily life which happened to be about half of our things.

We haven’t completely stopped shopping. In fact, I devote a small amount of time each week to it. I keep a list of what my growing son is in need of and what items I am looking for. I do a lot of my shopping online and find it quick and easy to compare prices and find deals. I also spend time reading product reviews like the ones here on Mommy Moment. I want to buy things we need and that other moms can tell me are good value.

We also now loan out and borrow from friends more. I kept some entertaining platters and baking tools that I love but don’t use often. It feels great to let a friend borrow them and should I need to borrow a cocktail dress I have lots of friends willing to loan me one.

It’s easier to clean my home now and I spend a lot less time moving piles of our things to keep rooms tidy. I wear everything in my wardrobe and it all looks good on me and fits me. With less stuff I am finding more time to connect with my son and my husband. Instead of cleaning when my son is napping I now have time to relax, read a book or catch up on some of my favorite blogs. My days aren’t so rushed and frantic anymore.

Life really is better when you keep just the best.