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Ask Trevor: What is the appropriate bedtime for my 5 year old?

Q: What is the appropriate bedtime for my 5 year old daughter?

(Bedtime questions are popular, check out another bedtime post here).

A: There is a lot to consider when choosing a bed time for a child. One has to consider the amount of activities the child has in their lives (eg school, sports, etc.). The key thing when considering a bed time is when do they need to wake up. Given that a typical 5 year old child needs 11ish hours of sleep in a given 24 hour period, and they need to get up at 7:00am for school, their appropriate bedtime should be around 8:00pm (*disclaimer: I think this is the right time…please cut me some slack here. I did not go to school for math…and I did fail my stats class on the first attempt).
I am glad that someone brought this topic up as I believe this is an area of our health that many of us neglect. We all (children and adults) need our sleep – and not just to feel rested. As adults we NEED at least 8 hours of sleep EVERY NIGHT. Why you ask? When we sleep our bodies go into repair mode (hence we sometimes wake up worse than when we went to bed). Given that it takes our bodies 8 hours to repair itself, we cannot strengthen our bodies if we do not give it the additional sleep time it requires. I realize this question originally was centered around children, however we also NEED to set examples for our children and be at our best health for our children.
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Trevor works as a child protection worker and a licensed registered Social Worker in his home province. During his schooling and training he specialized in mental illness and addictions. He looks forward to answering your questions on mental illness, addictions, parenting or child behavior.

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Callista

Saturday 8th of January 2011

My 5 year old (and 3 1/2 year old) goes to bed at 7:30 and wakes up at 7am. And I have to wake them up.

It also depends if they have a quiet time or nap time at all. If they sleep at school or still go half day and nap at home, they won't need as much sleep at night.

Alex

Thursday 6th of January 2011

Our children are 6.5 yrs old and 4 yrs old. Both go to bed anywhere between 7pm and 8pm (depending on how they're doing and what the day held for them) and wake up at 7am.

One of the things that drives me nuts it personally know some people who allow their young children to stay up until 12am or 1am every. single. night.