Small acts of kindness have been shown to help people deal with stress and make them happier overall.
Our family sat down together to compile this list of 99 acts of kindness to help us focus more on kindness this coming year. Some ideas we have done in the past, some ideas we had heard from others and some ideas are ones we want to try this year. We decided to share our list with all of you, but of course we encourage you to come up with more ideas too!
This list includes some acts of kindness for yourself as well. We need to learn to be kind to ourselves if we want to truly learn to be kind to others. Enjoy!
99 Acts of Kindness
- Pay for the person behind you
- Shovel a neighbors driveway
- Say hello to a stranger
- Offer to carry groceries for an elderly person
- Take your child to the library and read to them
- Forgive someone
- Offer free babysitting to a young family
- Give a compliment to the store clerk
- Volunteer at a soup kitchen
- Send a postcard
- Write a nice message to someone on their Facebook wall for others to see
- Let someone cut in front of you at the grocery store
- Invite someone for dinner
- Tell your child a story about your grandparents
- Donate clothes to a shelter
- Overpay for a glass of lemonade at a kids lemonade stand
- Donate blood
- Send a handwritten letter in the mail to a friend
- Say something kind to someone who who has wronged you
- Plant a tree
- Serve breakfast to a family member in bed
- Buy something from a local maker
- Give a handmade gift to a friend
- Leave a big tip to server who seems to be having a bad day (yes, even if they don’t deserve it)
- Visit a care home
- Leave a sticky note with a smiley face and nice message in a public restroom
- Sell 3 things and donate the money to a charity
- Give your partner a back rub
- Eat supper together as a family and put your phone down
- Bring a welcome basket to a new neighbor
- Call a friend you have not talked to in a long time
- Donate pet food to an animal shelter
- Offer a hug
- Tell someone in person how much they mean to you
- Pray
- Buy something you really want, and give it to a friend
- Invite some young people over for a night of board games
- Put extra money in a charity box at a store
- Pay it forward
- Thank a police officer for their service to the community
- Bake cookies for a coworker
- Hold the door open for someone
- Say thank-you to the gas attendant
- Buy that box of chocolates or magazine the neighborhood child is selling
- Take your kids with you when you volunteer
- Get some friends together to rake leaves for a widow
- Put your shopping cart away on a rainy day
- Make a care package for someone who is not feeling well
- Stop to help the person having car trouble
- Tell someone you are happy for them
- Leave a copy of an inspirational book on the bus
- Draw a happy face on all the bananas in the fruit bowl
- Take a break when you need one
- Make homemade bath salts to have ready to give a friend when she is stressed
- Make a treat for the birds
- Drop off muffins for the school staff room
- Offer someone a ride
- Drop some change on the sidewalk
- Write a note to put in your child’s lunchbox
- Tell your siblings you appreciate them
- Save up little things to put in a box for Operation Christmas Child
- Give someone the benefit of the doubt
- Tell your family you love them
- Pick up garbage at a local park
- Buy some extra canned goods for the local food bank
- Go to bed when you are tired
- Help a mom with her stroller
- Offer someone to sit with you when the place is packed
- Put money in an expired parking meter
- Talk nice to yourself
- Leave the close parking space for someone else
- Plan a cookie exchange with friends and donate a plate of goodies
- Buy coffee for the crossing guard
- Smile when your child walks into the room
- Call your grandparents if you are lucky to still have them
- Buy a plant for someone
- Leave some extra change at the local laundry mat
- Make homemade dog treats for your friends dog
- Deliver a Christmas hamper
- Smile when you don’t feel like it
- Lend your umbrella to someone when you are caught in the rain
- Just listen
- Say something really nice to your supervisor/boss
- Go out with a lonely friend, even if you really want to curl up at home
- Email your child’s teacher telling them that you appreciate them
- Bring a meal to a parent
- Donate books the children’s hospital
- Take a moment. When you are frustrated remember “STOP” (S- stop, T- take a breath, O-observe what is happening around you, P- practice responding rather than reacting)
- Leave a $5 on a random windshield
- Smile, really smile
- Don’t honk the horn (even if they deserve it)
- Help someone move
- Buy extra tissue boxes for your child’s classroom
- Sponsor a child
- Buy a tin of coffee to donate to a homeless shelter
- Make a get well card for someone
- Babysit for your friends one night so they can go on a date
- Give a stranger a compliment
- Be kind to yourself
What acts of kindness would you add to this list. Have you ever had someone surprise you with a random act of kindness?
You can print this acts of kindness sheet – see how many you can do this year. (edited to add: One reader said she is printing one to put up at her local post office – I love that idea!)
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Elaine Buonsante
Wednesday 30th of December 2015
What a great mindset! Your list really inspired me.
Amber B
Wednesday 30th of December 2015
I love this list! Great idea. I love holding doors for others, smiling at people I pass, etc. There are so many kind acts to do!
Tara Gauthier
Monday 28th of December 2015
I like that you sat down and made a list, for many this things are commonplace things that we just do but I am always surprised when out and see someone struggling and people don't stop to help. I saw someone trying to get a large bag of flour on bottom of her cart and the cart kept moving so I when and helped while others just stood around.
Debbie W
Thursday 24th of December 2015
It's nice to see a list that doesn't require much. Manners and kindness go a long way.
Leah Ewasick
Tuesday 22nd of December 2015
After reading this, I’ve challenged myself to follow in your footsteps… I already have a head start when I realized that #3, 4, 8, and 22 where fulfilled earlier today. (Thanks for paying it forward by the way!)